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I really rarely take the initiative to contact others. Sometimes I feel that this is not good, and the relationship that could have been further strengthened gradually fades away. I am the kind of person with a lot of contacts, but when I want to confide in someone, I don't even know who to call. I think it's better to go to a movie. Another thing is that sometimes others come to chat with me, and if I don't have all the fun, I'm too lazy to reply. I know it's not good, but I don't know how to change it.